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Bit of Happy #148: Together Forever

21 Apr

“We have been friends together in sunshine and in shade.”

The type of friendship that we all search and long for. Reliability. Strength. Trust. Honesty. A friendship that will uphold through the thick and thin, in the sunshine and shade. That no matter what life brings, no matter what the obstacle or challenge at hand, two true friends will walk together.

Not only does today’s quote suggest this wonderful, “picture-perfect” friendship, but the author also hints towards it being possible (which is one of my favorite parts!). That, in spoken words, it has come true. That an unbreakable bond can be formed between two people throughout life. That compassion and selflessness can shine through despite the crazy ride our lives tend to lead.

And it’s the unpredictable future, the inevitable unknown that truly proves the strength of a friendship. Puts every aspect to the test. There is no doubt that relationships go through ups and downs – bend just before the point of breaking. Despite this struggle, it’s the willingness to fight for the other that will pull both of you through. That will bring your friendship out of the shade and back into the sun.

And the best part, that time of trial will have mostly likely made that bond stronger, richer… more full. You may have learned something new about the other person, or your relationship with them. You may have revealed a new depth of yourself and can now better understand the meaning of trust. You may have proven your confidence and faithfulness to the friendship in a time of doubt.

Always remember… when you find a friendship like the one described in today’s quote, treasure it like gold. Be willing to give it all of the nurture and effort it requires. Hold on tight because the ride along the way can be full of dips and sharp turns. Whether you’re in the shade or basking in the sunshine, hopefully when you look over at that special person, you can smile. You can smile and know that as long as they are at your side, everything will be just fine.

Do you have a friend like this in your life? What are some challenges you have faced along the way?


Bit of Happy #125: Hold My Hand

21 Mar

Hold My Hand
by Hootie and the Blowfish

It’s finally getting warmer, and with the beautiful weather will come some amazing summer songs! I’ve been holding out and trying so hard to wait for spring. And since the first day of spring was yesterday, I’m not waiting a moment longer! I love listening to this song in my car with the windows down and my hand floating in the breeze. “Hold My Hand” by Hootie and the Blowfish has a powerful message that brings people together and shows the strength in taking on the world hand in hand instead of trying to do so all alone.

“With a little love, and some tenderness,
We’ll walk upon the water.
We’ll rise above this mess.
With a little peace, and some harmony,
We’ll take the world together.
We’ll take ‘em by the hand.

‘Cause I’ve got a hand for you.
‘Cause I wanna run with you.”

Whether a cherished friendship, the love of your life, or the unbreakable bond between parent and child, “Hold My Hand” has incredibly strong lyrics that can touch the lives of many. With a little love, some tenderness, a little peace and some harmony, this song pulls us closer to our loved ones in a gentle, yet gravitating way.

I hope you listen to today’s song and find the same feeling in your heart that I have!

Happy Monday!

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Bit of Happy #6: Flawlessly Flawed Prince(ss) Charming

21 Sep

“Love isn’t finding a perfect person. It’s seeing an imperfect person perfectly.”
-Sam Keen

By now, we know real life isn’t a fairy-tale. There is no prince charming galloping up on his white horse to save you of a broken heart from the last jerk. Love is messy. Love is imperfect – or maybe it’s just the people who are trying to love that are imperfect. Either way, life cannot be something that is flawless.

But I believe it is true love when two imperfect people come together in a perfect way. You are the indestructible team. The light in each other’s shadows. The courage to one another’s burdens. The strength to the other’s weakness. You fit – two pieces that become one single whole.

When I read this quote (which is by far one of my favorites!), I picture two people staring into the sunset, standing side by side, hand in hand. Ready to take on the world. No matter what challenges they are faced with. They are the unbreakable bond. The reason for getting up in the morning. The reason for existing. And as long as they have each other, life couldn’t be better. No matter the imperfections that exist… in each other, and in life.

That’s what I ultimately want out of life. What I want more than anything. My imperfect person…

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